Though he was (actually he is still) a gospel
singer, Sammie Okposo is one of the biggest
casanova's in the Nigerian music industry.
He bedded Stella Damascus, Kate Henshaw
Nuttal and ended uo marrying Ozioma
Mkparu (Warri no carry last at all). Well in a
recent interview, Kate threw Mr. Casanova
under the bus by exposing his "Wife-
Beating" attitude and the love for control

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I can't withstand violence in a relationship. I
was once a victim. The relationship lasted
for about three/four years. I didn't know
who I was then. I was so timid, I almost
stopped smiling and almost stopped
laughing, but there was this inner strength
in me that helped me to rediscover myself.
In fact, I had no self esteem then. I wanted
to change and be who I was not, based on
the ill treatment and violent nature of my
man then. He was constantly abusing,
beating and battering me inside the house
and in public places. I think there was a time
when I walked round with bandage on my
leg, courtesy of my violent lover. Funny
enough, this violent lover of mine claimed to
love me and wanted to marry me then.
I wanted to marry him. I had started
buying pots and other household items
because I was in love. I wanted to settle
down, I wanted to have my children with
him. I wanted to be happy and continue to
do my work but he was that bad. I kept
think he would change, but he didn't. I tried
my best to be everything to him, but finally I
said enough was enough, this relationship
was not of God and not for me. During
those turbulent periods, I was ashamed. I
couldn't tell anybody. Why did I stay? It's
very ironical because after the beating
comes the gifts, the begging, the cries and
words like 'It's your fault, I'd try and change,
it's not me..' Everybody will now be saying
forgive him, he's begging. In one of the
beatings, he broke my ankle..but let's not
dwell much on things of the past.
I cannot tell you his name, we are both
separately married now and still waxing
stronger in the entertainment industry.
Those that knew us then know the person
and they also know his name
Dear Pastor Sammie Okposo , What’s up
with beating women? Is that what the bible
commands you to do?
May be we should blame you for making
Stella Damasus Aboderin a single woman
and Kate Henshaw Nuttall for marrying an
Oyinbo (white) guy?
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